The Killjoy of Self-Criticism
kill·joy /ˈkilˌjoi/ Learn to pronounce noun a person who deliberately spoils the enjoyment of others through resentful or overly sober behavior. I admit that the term "killjoy" doesn't exactly fit here, but I think it captures the essence of what I'm sharing about today. One of the many Facebook quilting groups I'm a member of is a group dedicated to a block of the month program I participated in a few years ago. A few days ago, one of the other members posted about starting to piece together her quilt top and how she was in tears of discouragement because none of her points were matching and it just wasn't coming together. She had spent so much time working on this quilt and it was a disappointment to her. She also said she was disappointed in herself . I never like to see someone disappointed or discouraged in their craft, so I responded to her post with this: I can definitely commiserate with you. I am often so disappointed in the final results of my ...